Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Sunday, April 17, 2011

My Reason for being on this Earth

To make everyone around me a little happier.
To make everyone's life a little easier.
To love and to serve everyone.
To help everyone to the best of my ability.
To share my thoughts with others and listen to others share their thoughts.
To find the truth and fight for it.
To be virtuous.
To hunger and thirst for righteousness.
To forgive.
To forget.
To make you smile.
To be the shoulder to cry on.
To be the best brother I can be.
To be the best friend I can be.
To be the best son I can be.
To be the best cousin I can be.
To be the best nephew I can be.
To be the best grandson I can be.
To be the best student I can be.
To be the person I was meant to be.
To make peace.
To share the gifts I have.
To give to others.
To share the joys of my life with others.
To share in the joys of others lives.
To care for others.

To live.
To laugh.
To love.

"Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is bliss, taste it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it."
-Mother Teresa

Thursday, February 3, 2011

"Romanticism"

Today was the first "snow day" at Notre Dame in over 10 years.  The University has brain-washed it's students into believing that school will never close because of the weather.  So I must say that I have lived through a rare event: a Notre Dame "snow day." 
It wasn't just any old winter day in South Bend either.  True there was snow on the ground and most places it was higher than my knees, but it was sunny outside.  There was no (seemingly never ending) cloud cover that prevented the Vitamin D from hitting my skin, entering my body, controlling the calcium absorption in my intestines and keeping my bones strong and unbreakable.
It turned out to be a beautiful day: sunny, snow-white, restful, and fun.

Now it is the evening and it has started snowing.  It isn't the blizzard conditions that we had last night but, instead, it is beautiful snow falling slowly in large flakes that stick to my nose and eyelashes.

This brings me to a comforting thought: romance and love.

My Calculus TA, Yen-Chang Huang, took the first 20 minutes of our first class to tell us his life story.  He told us where he is from: Taiwan. 
He told us how many years he has been a graduate student at ND: 5. 
He told us what he was studying in Mathematics: i dont remember. 
And he told us why he came from the tropical climate of his home to the cold tundra-like climate of South Bend, Indiana: he thinks thought that snow was romantic.

He got this idea from the movies that he watched back home in Taiwan.  He described a scene from a movie that he watched to us that developed this ideology.

The description went something like this:
"Sow u know win da man and da woman are outside in da end a da movie, riiiight? riiiiiiight?"
"Weeell, u know win day kiss da snow starts falling and ahhh u know its soo romantic!"

Yes, it is true that winter and snow bring out a romantic feeling in most people.  But, there is also the  frustrated/mad/upset feeling that blizzard weather brings which counter acts any good feeling that the winter once gave you.

I have experienced both of these feelings in the past 24 hours.  Walking back to my dorm last night in a windy snowy storm (that some call blizzards) and trudging through the ever-increasing deep snow gave me an upset feeling for a few moments.  However, that was soon quashed by a good feeling of accomplishment - that I was conquering a bone-chilling, frost-biting storm.  But, this evening, I saw a beautiful, calm, still snowfall.  A snowfall that one would associate with a romantic scene.

It gets me thinking about romance and love.  A fun thought to entertain. 
It is something that is, easily, within my reach.

After all this is Notre Dame.  Anyone can find Our Lady.  Now all I have to do is find "my lady."  Which will be harder since she won't be gilded in gold or on top of a golden dome.

But, as of now, Our Lady is on top of a dome that looks more white than golden...

Happy Snowpocalypse everyone!

Sunday, November 21, 2010

What is Love?


"Though I have all faith
so that I could remove mountains...
... and have not love, I am nothing.
And though I bestow all my goods
to feed the poor...
... and though I give my body
to be burned...
... and have not love,
it profiteth me nothing.
Love suffereth long and is kind.
Love envieth not.
Love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up.
When I was a child, I spake as a child; I understood as a child; I thought as a child.
But when I became a man, I put away childish things.
But now abideth faith, hope, love... these three.
But the greatest of these is love."



As much as I love that quote from the movie, he leaves out a few things from 1 Corinthians that are just so beautiful so I have included the text (from the New American Bible) here:

1 If I speak in human and angelic tongues but do not have love, I am a resounding gong or a clashing cymbal. 2 And if I have the gift of prophecy and comprehend all mysteries and all knowledge; if I have all faith so as to move mountains but do not have love, I am nothing. 3  If I give away everything I own, and if I hand my body over so that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing. 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, 5 it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, 6 it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.  
8 Love never fails. If there are prophecies, they will be brought to nothing; if tongues, they will cease; if knowledge, it will be brought to nothing. 9 For we know partially and we prophesy partially, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I used to talk as a child, think as a child, reason as a child; when I became a man, I put aside childish things.  At present we see indistinctly, as in a mirror, but then face to face. 12 At present I know partially; then I shall know fully, as I am fully known. 13 So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:1-13


Now time to site the greatest of all informational websites, Wikipedia:
According to Wikipedia, when discussing 1 Corinthians 13...

Agape (is)...
  • (verse 4)
    • is long suffering (i.e. tolerant, patient)
    • is kind
    • is free of jealousy, envy and pride
  • (verse 5)
    • does not display unseemly behavior
    • is unselfish
    • is not touchy, fretful or resentful
    • takes no account of the evil done to it [outwardly ignores a suffered wrong]
  • (verse 6)
    • hates evil
    • is associated with honesty
  • (verse 7)
    • protects
    • trusts [implying faith in God and trusting in righteousness]
    • hopes
    • perseveres
  • (verse 8)
    • triumphs
  • (verse 13)
    • is greater than either faith or hope

Isn't the juxtaposition between verses 7 and 8 awesome?
Love protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres... yet TRIUMPHS.
It is really great to know that "love never fails."


"Whoever is without love does not know God, for God is love."
1 John 4:8

Well, there's the answer.
We don't need to seek out love.  
It is right here.

It is God.